隨著我國改革開放的進一步推進,教育體制改革的不斷深化,大學生戀愛現象已經變的越來越普遍。2005 年教育部出臺的《普通高等學校學生管理規定》中表示,不再禁止在校大學生結婚,也就是說我國在校大學生實現了婚姻自由。女大學生作為大學生中的一個特殊群體,在大學校園中占據著越來越重要的地位。目前我國在校女大學生比例已超過50%,受社會環境、家庭環境、學校環境以及自身性別角色的影響,女大學生的戀愛心理特點呈現多樣性,即感性與理性交織、傳統與現代結合、純愛與功力并存;女大學生的戀愛心理也存在一些問題,即失戀挫折感強,承受能力較弱、戀愛動機功利化、戀愛心理盲從化、戀愛中傳統道德淡化。其次,對女大學生戀愛心理存在的問題進行進一步的分析,從社會、家庭、學校及女大學生自身四方面的影響因素挖掘問題存在的根本問題,使我們從根本上認識到解決女大學生戀愛心理問題的重要性以及深遠意義。最后,本文針對影響女大學生戀愛心理的因素,從內因及外因兩個角度探討解決女大學生戀愛心理問題的策略,外因即從社會文化、學校教育、家庭教育等方面入手,加強社會對女大學生戀愛心理的關注與關懷,努力為女大學生營造一個良好的學習生活環境;內因即從女大學生自身入手,提高女大學生面對戀愛心理問題的應對能力,理性的對待愛情、培養他們愛的能力、學會如何在戀愛中自尊與尊重他人、正確面對失戀,幫助女大學生提升自我、完善自我、發展自我,實現愛情、學業雙豐收。
關鍵詞:女大學生,戀愛心理,功利化,盲從化,社會文化
Abstract
With further promote China's reform and opening up, the deepening of education reform,love in college students has become increasingly common. 2005Ministry of Education issued a“general college student regulations” said college students are no longer banned in marriage,that means our college students to achieve the freedom of marriage. Female students as collegestudents in a particular group on campus occupied an increasingly important position. At present,the proportion of female students at school for more than 50%, by the social environment andfamily environment school environment and their gender roles impact, psychologicalcharacteristics of female college students love diversified, namely between Sense and Sensibility,tradition and modernity, pure love and sill coexist. There are also some problems of Femalestudents on love problems, namely romance strong frustration, affordability is weak, utilitarianmotives love, love psychology of blind obedience, love fade traditional morality. Secondly, thefemale students love psychological problems in further analysis, the fundamental problemexcavation problems from their own factors in four areas of social, family, school and collegestudents, so fundamental to our understanding of female college students love to solvepsychological problems The importance and far-reaching significance. Finally, the factors thataffect the female college students love psychology, both from internal and external anglesexplore solutions female students love psychological problems of strategy, external factors thatstart from the social and cultural aspects of school education, family education, and strengthenthe community of female college students Love psychological attention and care, and strive tocreate a good learning environment for female students; female students from their own internalstart improving female students face psychological problems capacity to respond in love andrational about love, and develop their ability to love, learn how to self-esteem and respect forothers in love, the right to face romance, female college students to help enhance the self,s e l f - i m p r o v e m e n t , s e l f - d e v e l o p m e n t , t o a c h i e v e l o v e , a c a d e m i c b u m p e r.
Key words: female college students, love psychological problems, utilitarian, blindly, socialculture
目錄
第一章 緒論
1.1 研究背景
1.2 國內外研究現狀
1.3 研究意義
1.4 研究內容、難點與創新
1.5 研究方法
第二章 女大學生戀愛心理概述
2.1 戀愛及戀愛心理的相關概念
2.2 女大學生戀愛心理的特點
第三章 女大學生戀愛心理存在的問題
3.1 戀愛挫折感強,承受能力較弱
3.2 戀愛動機功利化
3.3 戀愛心理盲從化
3.4 戀愛中傳統道德淡化
第四章 女大學生戀愛心理的影響因素分析
4.1 社會文化對女大學生戀愛心理的影響
4.2 校園文化對女大學生戀愛心理的影響
4.3 家庭因素對女大學生戀愛心理的影響
4.4 大學生自身一些因素的影響
第五章 女大學生戀愛心理教育的策略
5.1 發揮社會文化的主導作用
5.2 發揮學校教育的主體作用
5.3 發揮家庭教育的主要作用
5.4 克服女大學生自身戀愛心理的一些缺陷
結論
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